Boundaries can provide clear guidelines that help establish mutual respect, protection, and support. While the concept of boundaries may vary from person to person, the essence remains the same: communicating what behaviors are acceptable and what are not.
Boundaries can help you understand what each person in the relationship wants from the other, from the amount of time spent together to financial decisions and interactions with the opposite sex. It’s important for partners to honestly communicate with each other so that they understand one another’s expectations. Characteristics of Healthy Boundaries In a healthy relationship, both partners prioritize each other's feelings, show gratitude, practice honesty, allow space for autonomy, respect differences, validate emotions, take responsibility for their actions, and foster open communication. Effective Ways to Set Healthy Boundaries
If you don’t feel that your partner is respecting you, there are ways to communicate to your partner that they have crossed a line. Examples of setting boundaries with someone who has been disrespectful:
Setting boundaries may be difficult for some people. But if you have two people who are willing to work to change their communication patterns, you can improve your relationship. Your relationship deserves the love and respect that comes with honoring each other's boundaries. |
AuthorJill Barnett Kaufman, MSW, LCSW and Certified Parent Educator is an experienced clinician who helps clients discover new ways to resolve a variety of challenges and bring more happiness and peace into their lives. Archives
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