Holiday Stress

The holiday season brings a tremendous amount of stress as we are either incredibly busy or feeling somewhat lonely.  Many people don't have as strong support systems as they need and it becomes very obvious during the holidays due to the messages that we receive from the media.  If your life doesn't look like some picture perfect holiday card then you feel like a failure.  These perfect pictures are usually unrealistic.  Here are some tips to make it a non-stressful holiday season:

1. Slow down - our society moves quickly.  There is so much to do and we feel that if we aren't accomplishing something we're waisting time.  Say no to an invitation.  Shut off all screens.  Sometimes we need to take a break and breathe.

2. Acknowledge your feelings - know that feeling anxious or sad is normal and allow yourself to feel those feelings.  Express them in a journal or to a close friend.  

3. Look for the positive - if you don't have an extended family or support system, find the people who are there for you.  Recognize that you do have people who care about you and who you care about.

4. Reach out - contact others in the community or in religious or other groups.  There are others who are waiting to connect with you and will help you get through this time.

5. Spend time in nature - nature can be healing and if you're feeling stressed or depressed, getting out in the sun can be just what the doctor ordered.  Sunlight stimulates the production of the feel good serotonin.

6. Make time for yourself - take a walk, listen to music, take a yoga class, take a bubble bath.  Spend time with someone who makes you laugh.  Do things to take care of yourself so that you can truly enjoy this time of year.